Do you have a hot-running engine or a laid-back, Buddha style? Are you anxious or calm?
Your brain is the hardware. When the brain has an experience, the mind is created. The mind is the software. It’s a magical place with potential for change.
If you were the kid with the different neurology in the family, you may not have been a “good fit” for the other personalities in your home. It was tough on you, just the way it is for Patrick, a very high-energy guy in a family of Buddhas. What about Amanda who is way too emotional for everybody?
It’s OK to be different. Help them understand “goodness of fit”, give them a “wide berth” and strategies for dealing with different people ‘cause you just ain’t gonna change ‘em.
Just do the best you can, Claudia
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